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Sex, a necessity or an accessory to marriage?

I opened another note this week. Before I tell you what the note said let me tell you first what my thoughts was.

This was definitely a fun one. My first thought was: did she write this, or did I write this? It sounded more like something I would say. However, I can recognize the truth into it. Which begs the question how important is sex in a marriage? Is sex a necessity or an accessory to marriage? While I am sure that there are happily married couples out there that rarely have sex, I do believe that in the early year of marriage sex is very important. It enhances couple’s intimacy. I also believe that sex is a form of communication in a relationship. The act leading up to and after are all equally important. According to the blog marriage, sex release a powerful endorphin that flow through reward pathways in the brain, inducing euphoria and the feelings of love. Therefore, sex is both a necessity and an accessory to marriage. Couples just need to find what works best for them. As for me… teasing… yes… keep it coming please!

The note reads: I like teasing you because I love seeing how much you want me.

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You have no idea the amount of happiness you brought into my life.

This was the second note I opened. I should know by now but every time I am surprise by the level of feelings that comes through her words. By nature, I am a touchy person. I communicate with touch. You can tell how close, comfortable I am with someone by the way I touch them. On the contrary, Wi-Fi likes to hear words. She wants to hear me telling her how much I love her and care. Unfortunately, I suck at this. The good news though is that I know this, and I am working on it. I don’t know how much happiness I bring into her life, but I know for sure that I want to bring even more happiness in her life. Is it going to be enough? I don’t know… but I pray for a life-time to found out.

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When I’m with you hours feel like seconds. When we’re apart, days feel like years

I opened this while I was chatting with Wi-Fi on Skype. At that moment I felt all the weight of the distance between us. Apps like Skype make the distance feels a little lighter. But still nothing can replace waking up in the morning and seeing that beautiful face. Or the feeling I get when she steps on my feet (for no reason), holds me tightly as we dance to the most amazing song you can ever listen to in moments like these: silence. I have never wished for time to stop until she stepped on my feet. Those moments are so peaceful that it almost feels like nothing else exist in this world but us. Unfortunately, those moments seem to go by fast as if someone suddenly pushed fast forward. Thinking about those moments now make me wish for a time machine.