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The trial and triumph of Long Distance Relationship

LDR is hard. There is no sugarcoating. No one is actually looking for a long distance relationship. Oftentimes the distance is a last resort, and anything but intentional. Being in a long distance relationship is a testing time. No one wants to be hours away from a loved one. If you’ve experienced a long distance relationship the endless struggle of seeing each other, making the late night phone calls, and keeping the fire alive is all too real.  And there’s always something special about long distance relationship. However, it can sometimes become a suffering as you long to see your partner and crave to hold each other in your arms. Just like any other long distance relationship plays out, we struggled, we grew, and learned to love in our own particular way. It was difficult, but we were committed from the get go to make things work out.  Along the way, I just learned that the secret is being optimism. The thing that will really make you strong is remembering that all this waiting is for something, that there’s a reward to this. And I guess seeing that significant other is the best reward.💕  So are you in the beginning, middle, or end of a long distance relationship? Be strong and take heart. If you’re in a committed relationship and serious about your partner, the time spent apart will seem minimal in the long run. Moreover, if you’re in it for the long run, quarrels and arguments will definitely come, the time spent apart will be grounded in the reassurance of love and respect.  

👉 LDR is possible. More than that, LDR can lay the solid foundation for long lasting love.   It takes time to grow together but you’ll find that distance, no matter how painful, truly makes the heart grow fonder.❣️❣️❣️

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 ♡ Meeting your LDR partner for the first time ♡

With online dating now a thoroughly acceptable way to meet the next love of your life, it’s becoming more common for people to fall in love with partners who are on the other side of the globe. Now, there are no borders or boundaries when it comes to love.
When you’re going to meet with someone you’ve never met before, whether that’s someone you met on a dating site or a totally blind date – it’s normal to be a little nervous and worry that things won’t go well or work out. But when I saw my husband for the first time, I was in a mixed emotion. It was so awkward that I don’t know what to say or where should I start the conversation just to ease the awkwardness. But I found out that talking to him was so fun and easy.And along the way, I just knew for sure that his going to be my forever. I would never call it love at first sight (such a cliché), I just knew. I’d just never met anyone before who I felt such a bond the way I felt to my husband. We may had slightly different experiences but took away the same lessons and feelings from them.

While a LDR is hard work, that hard work can pay off. You shouldn’t give up hope of achieving your happily ever after just because you’re in a long distance relationship. In fact, you may end up with a deeper and more grounded relationship precisely because you have spent some time long distance. And if you are committed and willing to put in the effort, there is every chance that your relationship will succeed if you both really want it to