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Sex, a necessity or an accessory to marriage?

I opened another note this week. Before I tell you what the note said let me tell you first what my thoughts was.

This was definitely a fun one. My first thought was: did she write this, or did I write this? It sounded more like something I would say. However, I can recognize the truth into it. Which begs the question how important is sex in a marriage? Is sex a necessity or an accessory to marriage? While I am sure that there are happily married couples out there that rarely have sex, I do believe that in the early year of marriage sex is very important. It enhances couple’s intimacy. I also believe that sex is a form of communication in a relationship. The act leading up to and after are all equally important. According to the blog marriage, sex release a powerful endorphin that flow through reward pathways in the brain, inducing euphoria and the feelings of love. Therefore, sex is both a necessity and an accessory to marriage. Couples just need to find what works best for them. As for me… teasing… yes… keep it coming please!

The note reads: I like teasing you because I love seeing how much you want me.

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You have no idea the amount of happiness you brought into my life.

This was the second note I opened. I should know by now but every time I am surprise by the level of feelings that comes through her words. By nature, I am a touchy person. I communicate with touch. You can tell how close, comfortable I am with someone by the way I touch them. On the contrary, Wi-Fi likes to hear words. She wants to hear me telling her how much I love her and care. Unfortunately, I suck at this. The good news though is that I know this, and I am working on it. I don’t know how much happiness I bring into her life, but I know for sure that I want to bring even more happiness in her life. Is it going to be enough? I don’t know… but I pray for a life-time to found out.

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When I’m with you hours feel like seconds. When we’re apart, days feel like years

I opened this while I was chatting with Wi-Fi on Skype. At that moment I felt all the weight of the distance between us. Apps like Skype make the distance feels a little lighter. But still nothing can replace waking up in the morning and seeing that beautiful face. Or the feeling I get when she steps on my feet (for no reason), holds me tightly as we dance to the most amazing song you can ever listen to in moments like these: silence. I have never wished for time to stop until she stepped on my feet. Those moments are so peaceful that it almost feels like nothing else exist in this world but us. Unfortunately, those moments seem to go by fast as if someone suddenly pushed fast forward. Thinking about those moments now make me wish for a time machine.

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The joy and sorrow of Long Distance relationship

Nothing tests a relationship more than distance. I’ve been away from my husband for almost a year, and it’s never been easy at all. You really need to adjust to not seeing each other for how many months…not being together when we needed each other most. But along the way, I definitely believe that being in a long distance relationship is something that every couple could benefit from going through. Not only does strengthen your relationship and test it – but the experience also strengthens you as an individual.

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chilling before the wedding ceremony

– No relationship is easy or perfect. There will always be some challenges, but if the person truly means to you, whether that person is your partner, a friend or parent you have to work to fix things. Being in a long distance relationship has changed us individually and as a couple in many ways; good ways. We learned how to make things work, and gradually it got easier. Now we are extremely happy to have gone through all of this. Now we feel confident about us and cannot wait to begin the next chapter of our lives: being together anytime we want. Yes, being in a long distance relationship is difficult, but when it is with the right person, it isn’t half bad. It taught us a lot about ourselves, things we might not have figured out otherwise.

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First Valentine

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Wi-Fi valentine note

When I opened this note, I was planning to write her a love note too. I had everything planned in my head. But after reading her notes, my mouth was wide open in admiration and I felt like I was falling hard in love with this woman again. However, I also realized that my note was not going to be any where better than this one. But after much thought, I decided to send my note anyway. I guess the thought that I took time to think about the note and actually write it count more than what was in the note. God knows that I am anything but romantic. While this valentine was lonely, it was heartwarming to know that someone (my Wi-Fi) loves me this much.